Cheating is such a disgusting habit and action and I have no respect whatsoever for people who do this. I've been hearing so many stories from my bf about people he knows who cheat.

Case 1:

Female 1 has a husband and kid. However she has a thing going on with her colleague (Male 1) and also another guy (Male 2). She hangs out with these individuals til very late and God knows what she does with them. Come on. You have a kid and husband waiting for you at home. You working hours are already so long. The least you could do is make an extra effort to go home as soon as your work is done and spend time with them right? What kind of mother are you? What kind of wife are you? 

Case 2: 

Female 2 has a bf (Male 3). Male 3 is very serious about Female 2 and wants to settle down. However Female 2 is still sleeping around with other guys. Male 3 knows about this however, he still wants to look past this and says "The past is the past" and still wants to settle down with her. 

YOU'RE A FOOL. This clearly isn't the past is she is STILL sleeping around with other guys. This is the PRESENT. But whatever. It's your life. You want to be with a slut and settle down with her, that's your problem. Good luck to you if she picks up an STD from one of her many sleeping partners.

Case 3:

Male 4 has a wife and 2 kids at home. However, he also has a mistress (Female 3). All his friends know what's going on. During CNY when he goes visiting at his friends houses, he goes with his wife and kids. But on other nights, he's at the bar with his mistress. Once, his wife cried and told her friend that she doesn't understand why Male 4 constantly goes on overseas work trips and she even wondered if Male 4 still loved her or was cheating on her. Little did she know that she wasn't far from wrong.

Come on, Male 4, clean up your act!

He was very nearly given away but his friends covered up for him. 

Do you not have a conscience? Do you not care about your family? 

I feel sorry for the wife but. . . I do not want to be the one to tell her that her husband is a cheating son-of-a-bitch. I do not want to be the one who breaks up their family. 

Case 4:

Male 5 has a wife, a kid and another kid on the way. Male 5 cheats on wife's bestfriend (Female 4) even though said woman already has a fiance. 

Long story short, Male 5 ends up divorcing wife and doesn't bother visiting kids nor paying for their upkeep. Female 4 broke up with fiance.

Male 5 and Female 4 are getting married.

Good luck to them. I heard Female 4 is a slut who sucks people's money.

I really don't understand why people have to cheat. Especially when their significant other clearly loves them so much. 

If you think your relationship is in a rut or so boring, then do something about it! Go for counselling, do activities that you don't normally do together. But don't cheat. What if your loved one finds out what you've been doing? Do you know how crushed he/she would feel? What if you drove him/her to do an action so drastic that you would be held accountable for it forever?

I really hope people stop cheating and just think about other people's feelings. I know it is not in my place to judge and wish that bad things happen to them but I can't help it. I get so angry whenever I hear about people cheating. Just shows how willing they are to throw everything they have away and how they just take their partner for granted.